30 Of The Most Bizarre Things That Men Find The Most Attractive In Women (Most Women Never Knew This)

Burtland Dixon | November 22, 2024 2:00 am

Women can have numerous traits that men either find detrimental or attractive. The ones who have a lot of those traits are a ray of sunshine to the Earth.

If you don't know which qualities men find the most charming, take a moment and see for yourself. Some might surprise you more than you'd think.

She Isn't Afraid To Make The First Move

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Guys don't always want to make the first move. If she dares to step into that lane, it'll boost her attractiveness for many men. Plus, a man doesn't want to make a move that ends up being the wrong call.

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Being Kind Isn't Hard For Her

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If she's kind, that goes a long way. Who wants a woman who is sassy 24/7? Sure, that's cute every now and then, but if she leads with kindness, then that's a big bonus.

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She Isn't A Social Media Fiend

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Women can do as they please when it comes to social media. If she wants to post scantily clad pictures, then so be it. But if she hardly posts and keeps things casual, that's something a guy looks at and appreciates.

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Keeping Her Word

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Who finds lying attractive? Pretty much no one does, so a woman who keeps her word will make any man smile. As common as it sounds, keeping it real might not be that easy a quality to find in a lady.

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She Keeps Up With Her Fitness

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Keeping up with your fitness isn't an easy task, and people who do stay in the gym know that. If she can keep on track with her workouts, it shows she has the determination, which is a good look.

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Her Attitude Is Positive

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Positivity goes a long way. Why would any guy want a partner who stays pessimistic? That's the last person you want around your energy, but a positive person is attractive.

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An Emotionally Stable Woman

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If she's emotionally stable, then that means she doesn't have trauma (or she doesn't let it run her life). A guy who also has his emotions under control will appreciate a woman like that and find it attractive.

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Confidence Is A Beautiful Trait

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Confidence is a trait that can anyone to the next level. It's even better when she understands that she doesn't need a man because then, that might entice the guy to chase her and want her more.

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She's Miss Independent

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If a woman doesn't need to depend on her parents or anyone else to get what she needs, that independence is desirable. It also lets the guy know she isn't with him for his money.

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Can She Hold A Conversation?

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Holding a conversation goes a long way. A woman can't always leave it up to a guy to keep the conversation going, so if she can start or keep an engaging convo going, he'll greatly appreciate it.

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She Understands The Price Of Ambition

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Not to say that women don't know what the price of ambition is, but not all of them do. Not every guy does either, but those who do respect an ambitious woman.

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He Laughs A Lot With Her

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A lady who can make a guy laugh is already ahead of the game. Add in good looks and you have a special woman on your hands, and guys love that.

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Few Things Are More Attractive Than Happiness

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If she is consistently happy, how could you not find that attractive? An attitude can send mixed signals, and those aren't the easiest to decipher. Happiness makes anyone more attractive.

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She Exudes Elegance And Style

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Not every guy cares if a woman can dress, but he can't say it doesn't boost his attraction towards her. Add on her elegance and you have the perfect storm.

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Appreciating His Efforts

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Whether he mentions it or not, some men put in a lot of work every day. If she notices and appreciates it, he'll love that and find her more attractive.

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A Romantic Woman

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He probably won't openly admit it, but many guys are suckers for the cheesy and romantic stuff. If she loves the romantic aspect of things, he'll likely find her 10 times more attractive.

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She Has The Right Features That Get Him Going

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To each their own when it comes to body shape, so there isn't one specific figure that gets every guy going. Guys' preferences go across the spectrum from shape to hair color but when a woman has the combination he's most into, she becomes irresistible.

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She's Traditional In A Sense

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By "traditional," that means she respects you, your parents, and your family. She believes in something bigger than her and knows the importance of building a bond as well. Those are keepers.

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She Isn't Afraid Of A Little Adventure

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Guys aren't that turned on by a woman who isn't down for a little adventure. If she accepts a challenge and even suggests some ideas, that's an amazing trait to have.

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Women With Good Character

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Not every man and woman has good character. Both genders can get shady and deceitful, which isn't good at all. Character is a trait people remember you by after you're gone, so if hers is high, that's sensational.

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She Likes To Take A Risk

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A woman who isn't afraid to take a risk every once in a while, as scary as it is, is a woman who allows herself new opportunities, growth, experiences and doesn't get stuck in the same old boring routine. She makes for an exciting and adventurous partner.

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She's Quick to Adapt To Change

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Change is the only constant in life yet many get stuck in the transition because they can't let go of the past. A woman who is strong and easy going enough to tackle change and make the best of it can come off as quite attractive.

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A Woman Who Can Deal With Conflict

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Everyone has their own way of dealing with conflict. Some prefer to address it right away while others like to take the time to form their thoughts first.

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However, there are healthy and unhealthy ways of dealing with it such as avoiding it altogether or using passive aggressive behavior instead of communicating through it.

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She Has A Passion That Lights Her Up

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A woman with passion glows. Men enjoy hearing a woman talk about something she's passionate about not necessarily because they share an interest in it but because they love to see the way it opens up her body language and makes her eyes sparkle.

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Plus it shows off her motivation and ambition

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A Woman With A Good Support System

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The people a woman surrounds herself with can say a lot about who she is. After all, these are the people that influence her decisions, shape up her interests, and often reflect her values.

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A woman that has a strong and supportive circle shows her good judgement in choosing people with good character and reflecting her own.

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A Woman Who Appreciates Him

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Men find it very attractive when a woman goes the extra mile to show them that she appreciates their efforts. It balances out the relationship and makes them feel rewarded, even encouraging them to keep giving her more.

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When She Can Get Down And Dirty

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A woman who can trade in her dress an heels for a day of hiking in sneakers and an oversized hoodie is a woman who's not afraid to get a little a dirty in the name of fun and adventure.

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Guys love a woman who can be comfortable hanging out with no make up on just as much as a woman who dresses up.

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A Woman Who Takes Time For Herself

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As much as a man appreciates the time she gives him, he finds it attractive when she takes time away to take care of her own needs and interests. This shows him her independence.

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Plus when she comes back feeling refreshed it takes some pressure off of him and the relationship.

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A Woman Who Doesn't Need A Lot To Be Happy

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This isn't a simple woman but rather a woman who knows how to make the best of everything, sees the good in the small things, and appreciates the small moments.

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Those combined make her an altogether a happy woman who doesn't necessarily need a big house or a fancy car to feel happy.

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A Woman Who Loves Herself

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It shouldn't be the man's job to validate her or make her feel loved. A Woman who already loves herself independently is confident, collected and knows what she wants. That allows her to love him in a fair, fulfilling and balanced healthy way making for the best kind of partner.

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